Blame is a very common device to escape responsibility and protect ourselves from pain by pointing the finger at other people. Once you fully understand this, you can decide to take action to fix what needs to be fixed or let go and move on, not from a place of anger, but from a place of humility. No matter what, you can always decide your attitude toward life. So in a way, you are always in control. Being stuck is never your fault, but getting unstuck is always your responsibility. Listen to this and really take some time to reflect. And when you do, let's chat.