What Do I Know? with Bill Shakos

Episode 12: Practicing Gratitude: Finding Purpose Through Connection


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Welcome, friends. 


Today we’re exploring gratitude — not just an emotion, but a mindset, a skill, and a way of seeing the world that can reconnect you to what truly matters. 


As we get older, many of us experience a quiet crisis of purpose. The goals that once fueled us lose their spark. Achievements feel less fulfilling. Comparison creeps in. Gratitude offers a way back — not by reinventing yourself, but by remembering yourself.


In this episode, I’m joined by my closest friend, Jesse Shafer (from Episode 1), to reflect on my journey through making the podcast fueled by a recent crisis of purpose that pushed me to rethink my life, my goals, and my relationships. With encouragement from a mentor, I set out on a journey that led to ten powerful conversations — many with people I had never met before — spanning seniors, veterans, LGBTQ youth, people with disabilities, public servants, and families navigating homelessness and affordable housing.


Along the way, I confronted my own assumptions, felt the weight of others’ lived experiences, and discovered how deeply human connection can expand your understanding of the world.


Balancing genuine sentiment with ‘off the cuff’ humor (we can’t resist), Jesse and I look back on:

  • The impact privilege on gratitude
  • My struggles with imposter syndrome
  • The importance of empathy, curiosity, and listening without judgment
  • The unexpected joy and wisdom found in our own community

And to anyone feeling lost or questioning their purpose: practicing gratitude won’t fix everything, but it can change the way you see everything. 


You don’t need to be remembered for what you hadbut for how you lived and how you made others feel.


One day my kids — maybe even my grandkids — will listen to these conversations. I did this to become a better person. To practice curiosity, empathy, and presence. To prove there’s more wisdom in a stranger’s story than in any book. To remind you that being human is messy… but it’s worth it.


This podcast isn’t about being important. It’s about being present.


Thank you friends for listening. And thank you for being part of this journey.

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