30 Going on Flirty

Episode 12: Scorekeeping in Healthy Relationships


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In this episode, we’re talking about scorekeeping, the quiet habit that can slowly poison even the healthiest relationships. From “Ako na naman?” to “I did this for you, so you owe me,” we unpack why keeping emotional receipts feels satisfying in the moment but damaging in the long run.

We share how scorekeeping showed up in our past relationships, how it subtly affects communication and intimacy, and what healthier love looks like when you stop competing and start partnering. We also dive into fairness, emotional labor, and learning to give without resentment.

If you’ve ever caught yourself tallying efforts, this episode is your sign to reset and rebuild with grace.
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30 Going on FlirtyBy Steph Andin