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In modern America, most of us live in a post-family society, no matter how often we call Mom. The structure of our everyday lives, social policies, and many other forces make family a low priority for most Americans.

Therefore, we have learned to rely ever more on our friends. Friends help us find our soul mates, job opportunities, emotional comfort, an…