The first thing I want you to think about is this:
Resisting failure is, at its core, seeking perfection. And, perfection doesn’t exist.
That’s why perfectionists are also likely to be chronic procrastinators.
As Psychology Today noted in their article Pitfalls of Perfectionism, people who constantly seek for perfection stop themselves from engaging in challenging experiences.[1] That’s because these perfectionists are less creative and innovative than the average person — plus they’re less likely to take risks. Add these factors together, and you have someone who is overly focused on their own performance and is always quick to defend themselves. Unfortunately, these traits prevent them from having the necessary focus when it comes to learning new tasks.
Let me be clear: Striving for perfection is not the same as striving for excellence.
The former is a fool’s quest for the unattainable; while the latter is really just about doing our very best (which we can all obtain).