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Episode 13: 34 Lessons I've Learned About Shaping Behavior as a Parent, Educator & Parent Coach
11/29/2022
Shea Tracey Podcast
Episode 13: 34 Lessons I Have Learned on Managing A Child’s Behavior as a Parent, Educator, & Parent Coach
Brief summary of episode:
This special episode was made in honor of my 34th birthday. A bit on the long side for a usual Shea Tracey Podcast episode, I share the 34 lessons (maybe a bit more than 34) on the things I’ve learned about managing and eliminating problem behaviors while keeping my calm. This has come with my experience working as an educator for 8 years with students who have special needs and in my own personal experience as a parent of my two amazing boys, ages 9 and 6. This journey has not been without its triumphs as I have learned and have had enough ego deaths for 2 lifetimes.
Take a listen to some of the lessons I’ve learned to make your journey in parenting that much easier and blissful.
If you want a few words on managing problem behavior and maintaining your calm all the while then be sure you listen to today’s episode.
Access my free Masterclass all about how to eliminate problem behaviors and manage your calm: http://sheatracey.com/masterclass
Main Topics & Bullet Points:
Here is a quick view of some of the ideas and topics covered in my lessons learned.
“5 more minutes” - Timer - Countdowns - “Hand it To Me” - Let Them Tell You No - Make Room for Tears - Honor Their Likes - Branch Out
Their Interests - Sit for 10 more minutes - Pause Before Responding - Get Up & Get Them - Eye to Eye & Squat - Let Them Make Choices - “What Do You Need?” - “How Can I Help?” - Confer With Your Partner - Be Kind - No Threats or Promises - Don’t Reward Chores - Use their strengths to build their limits - Open conversations - Say when you’re uncomfortable - Let them see you rest - Get clear on the outcome you want - Balance clean and dirty - Pick habits and hobbies you can sustain - If you’re losing your stuff let it show - Dinner & Help - Clock out time is 8:00pm - Fear is not the goal - Full depth of emotions
Mentioned in this episode:
Link #1: Calm Communication Scripts Ebook
Link #2: Problem Proof Behavior Parenting Program
Related Episodes:
Season 1 Episode 5 How to Connect With Your Child in Today's Day & Age
iTunes: Season 1 Episode 5 Apple
Spotify: Season 1 Episode 5 Spotify
Season 1 Episode 8: Positive Communication for Difficult Children
iTunes: Season 1 Episode 8 Apple Podcast
Spotify: Season 1 Episode 8 Spotify
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By Shea Tracey11/29/2022
Shea Tracey Podcast
Episode 13: 34 Lessons I Have Learned on Managing A Child’s Behavior as a Parent, Educator, & Parent Coach
Brief summary of episode:
This special episode was made in honor of my 34th birthday. A bit on the long side for a usual Shea Tracey Podcast episode, I share the 34 lessons (maybe a bit more than 34) on the things I’ve learned about managing and eliminating problem behaviors while keeping my calm. This has come with my experience working as an educator for 8 years with students who have special needs and in my own personal experience as a parent of my two amazing boys, ages 9 and 6. This journey has not been without its triumphs as I have learned and have had enough ego deaths for 2 lifetimes.
Take a listen to some of the lessons I’ve learned to make your journey in parenting that much easier and blissful.
If you want a few words on managing problem behavior and maintaining your calm all the while then be sure you listen to today’s episode.
Access my free Masterclass all about how to eliminate problem behaviors and manage your calm: http://sheatracey.com/masterclass
Main Topics & Bullet Points:
Here is a quick view of some of the ideas and topics covered in my lessons learned.
“5 more minutes” - Timer - Countdowns - “Hand it To Me” - Let Them Tell You No - Make Room for Tears - Honor Their Likes - Branch Out
Their Interests - Sit for 10 more minutes - Pause Before Responding - Get Up & Get Them - Eye to Eye & Squat - Let Them Make Choices - “What Do You Need?” - “How Can I Help?” - Confer With Your Partner - Be Kind - No Threats or Promises - Don’t Reward Chores - Use their strengths to build their limits - Open conversations - Say when you’re uncomfortable - Let them see you rest - Get clear on the outcome you want - Balance clean and dirty - Pick habits and hobbies you can sustain - If you’re losing your stuff let it show - Dinner & Help - Clock out time is 8:00pm - Fear is not the goal - Full depth of emotions
Mentioned in this episode:
Link #1: Calm Communication Scripts Ebook
Link #2: Problem Proof Behavior Parenting Program
Related Episodes:
Season 1 Episode 5 How to Connect With Your Child in Today's Day & Age
iTunes: Season 1 Episode 5 Apple
Spotify: Season 1 Episode 5 Spotify
Season 1 Episode 8: Positive Communication for Difficult Children
iTunes: Season 1 Episode 8 Apple Podcast
Spotify: Season 1 Episode 8 Spotify