Your Best Version Podcast

Episode 13 Segment 2 - Don't Compare

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Today, we are exploring a habit that will ensure your ultimate failure - comparison.

Problem: You look at other people and compare yourself, your work, and your outcomes to them. You always come up short.

  • You know everything about you
  • You only know that others show you
  • Your inside always falls short of others outside
  • You compete with others and lose.

    • Possibility: You compare you today to you yesterday and look to others for inspiration and learning.

    • You are a product of your decisions and choices
    • You are who you believe you are
    • You don't compete with others - at most you observe
    • You compete with you and win

      • Mindsets:

      • Own your current state
      • Learn & Move On
      • You have no clue of other's path
      • Progress, not perfection

        • Skillsets

        • Dedicate yourself to work on your mind
        • Create a consistent comparison to yourself
        • If you see someone with success, ask how they did it
        • Be responsible for your results


          • MAKE IT STICK

          In your journal, write down the following as a catalyst to take action to eliminate comparison to others and begin comparison to yourself:

          • Identify someone you compare yourself to
          • Identify what you compare
          • How are you different?
          • Do you know why you are different?
          • If so, make a plan to adjust your path
          • If not, simply focus on your path to your purpose to your 5-Star version
          • Identify an action you can take in the next 24 hours to eliminate the comparison
          • ACT
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            Your Best Version PodcastBy David Porter