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When leadership collapses inside a marriage, it rarely happens in one dramatic moment. It slips quietly across years—through discouragement, criticism, exhaustion, avoidance, and a thousand unspoken fears. 

In Part 1 of this series, Debbie unpacked what happens when husbands withdraw, wives step up to survive, and families absorb the imbalance.

This episode is the hopeful turn.

In Part 2 of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie takes you inside the emotional, relational, and spiritual repair process that allows couples to rebuild what passivity, overfunctioning, or old wounds have slowly dismantled. Through the composite story of Michael and Andrea, she illustrates the longing that sits beneath nearly every distressed marriage: a husband who wants to lead but no longer believes he can, and a wife who wants partnership but no longer trusts she’ll receive it.

In this conversation, Debbie explores:

• Why leadership breaks down in the first place—often long before marriage
 • What healthy leadership actually looks like (and what it absolutely is not)
 • The emotional conditions men need in order to step back into responsibility
 • The relational safety women need before they can stop overfunctioning
 • How childhood modeling shapes the patterns each spouse brings into marriage
 • Why consistency matters more than dramatic change
 • What kids internalize about marriage—and how repair rewrites the family story

This episode is a roadmap for every couple who has looked at their marriage and thought, “We didn’t mean to drift—but we don’t know how to get back.”

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And, if you're ready to rebuild your marriage from the inside out, then check out my 6-month intensive marriage recovery program,s designed to help you heal deeply, communicate better, and reconnect emotionally and spiritually. Learn more at https://debbiecaudle.com/marriageinbloom