Fragile individuals in need of caregiving can find it hard to ask for help or accept help when it's offered. Attitudes and fears can get in the way. Pride, shame, a fear of vulnerability, and a desire to remain independent can all play a part. Knowing someone who truly needs and deserves help to preserve their safety and well-being can present a challenge for someone who tries to facilitate caregiving services. Sensitivity and patience are needed to preserve the fragile individual's self-respect while not treading on their conflicted emotions.