Amnon became so obsessed with Tamar that he became ill. She was a virgin, and Amnon thought he could never have her.”
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭13‬:‭2‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Matthew 7:7
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.

-Your obsession will not help you
-sickness is not from the lord
-dont think nothing it’s not a guessing game.
-forgive

You don’t have to manipulate to get your way.

“But Amnon had a very crafty friend—his cousin Jonadab. He was the son of David’s brother Shimea.”
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭13‬:‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬

2 Corinthians 4:2
“We reject all shameful deeds and underhanded methods. We don’t try to trick anyone or distort the word of God. We tell the truth before God, and all who are honest know this.”
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭4‬:‭2‬ ‭NLT‬‬

-sin will separate you from god
-come to your senses snap out of it you have offense
-let go of your family members and sit with the lord, he want to heal you and restore you

In James it says you want what you don’t have so you plot and scheme and kill to get it.
“You want what you don’t have, so you scheme and kill to get it. You are jealous of what others have, but you can’t get it, so you fight and wage war to take it away from them. Yet you don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it.”
‭‭James‬ ‭4‬:‭2‬ ‭NLT‬‬

““Well,” Jonadab said, “I’ll tell you what to do. Go back to bed and pretend you are ill. When your father comes to see you, ask him to let Tamar come and prepare some food for you. Tell him you’ll feel better if she prepares it as you watch and feeds you with her own hands.””
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭13‬:‭5‬ ‭NLT‬‬


Be honest in your evaluation of yourself
Romans 12:3
“Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬

-there’s only one god
-don’t just pretend to love others really love them
-sex will not please you it’s only for a moment then the pain is still there
-honor your father
-no I will not be your slave nor listen to you foolish talk

Even if im attacked the lord hold me close