Ahmed talks with BuzzFeed News' legal genius Nabiha Syed about what to do if a Customs and Border Protection officer asks for your phone—and other ways to legally resist at the border. Plus, Nabiha gives us advice about talking to white men and mixing patterns. Then, a conversation with Bim Adewunmi about Mahershala Ali's historic Oscar win, and what it means for a black man and member of the Ahmadiyya Muslim community to be the first Muslim actor to win an Academy Award. Follow Ahmed @RadBrownDads, Follow Nabiha @@nabihasyed, Follow Bim @bimadew. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices