Welcome in as we talk about "the work ahead" in affair recovery.

Please email [email protected] if you are interested in an intensive with either Will or Pepper to address issues such as (but not limited to) betrayal by adultery and how to heal.

In the show, we mention an acronym for ATTUNEMENT.

Attunement

Attunement = emotional responsiveness + curiosity + care

Acronym used in clinical work:

A — Awareness of partner’s emotion

T — Turning toward

T — Tolerance

U — Understanding

N — Non-defensive responses

E — Empathy

This becomes the oxygen the betrayed partner needs to breathe again!