As Trevor continues down recovery it opens up more awreness of how he has expiernced life and Danielle's perception at times is not lined up with his. Our reality is based on our perceptions and even though you might be living together your perceptions and feelings could be completely different. When others trigger us and hurt feelings happen you can go one of two directions, blame and shame or process internally and grow. The stuggles of the homemaker role vs the provider and navigating owning our choice to be happy.