In this episode Kate and Sally read an update from a listener about her limp handshake and the mainsplainer who mansplained it to her. Then they answer emails asking about trigger warnings, sexuality stuff, what to do when the going gets very rough, and when (if ever) you should share your best practices for dealing with chronic ailments with fellow sufferers (vs. when you should just MYOB). This week’s outro song is provided by TSB listener Augusta.