When you are completely present, gratitude no longer exists. Yet, giving thanks helps you get present.
A wave doesn't thank the ocean.
A flower doesn't thank the stem.
The earth doesn't thank the sun.
But appreciating them all gets you in the 'now'.
Can you consider occasions where there’s a unreasonable expectation of gratitude?
What would happen if you walked outside the 'carnival' to view what your dog sees?