Parents, ever wonder why you say this? Well, heres what I found. And here's the scariest thing for me: The real issue behind this phrase, "Why did you do that?" is essentially, "why are you showing symptoms of a greater problem? Don't you know that I don't care about you enough to dig deeper beyond your symptoms? stop making noise so I can get back to whatever I was doing?" But nobody has the guts to say that. At least I'm too much of a coward to say that. So, I just stick with, "Why did you do that?" But that ends today... Join the fight against the idol of comfort and control.