Sometimes, maybe often, when we are presented with people and their problems, we are tempted to be sucked into the problem with them and to try to “help” them by resolving what we see right in front of us. If someone is having difficulties with their wife or husband, for example, we try to help them with their wife or husband. But what we forget is that the family problem is really a problem with their relationship with God. Sometimes we just need to submit to God and do what he says, even if we don't want to or we think it doesn't make any sense.