Unpunishable Woman

Episode 17: Why Confident Single Women Still Settle


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In this episode, I unpack the difference between confidence, competence and

self-esteem —and why so many women are trying to solve the wrong problem.

A lot of women say they want more confidence, but in reality the deeper issue is often self- esteem. Confidence is usually skill-based and built through repetition, while self-esteem is internal. It shapes what you believe you deserve, what you tolerate, and whether you settle in your work, money, body, standards, or relationships.

In this episode, I explore:

● Why confidence is often misunderstood

● The role of competence in communication, work and visibility

● Why so-called "imposter syndrome" is often a mix of low self-esteem and

underdeveloped skill confidence

● How women can appear confident on the outside while still lacking solid self-esteem

internally

● Why low self-esteem is often the real reason women settle

If you want to stop performing confidence and start building a life that actually feels aligned, this episode is for you.

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Unpunishable WomanBy Ashanti Bentil-Dhue