We create our reality and mostly we are not aware that our focus decides most of our manifestations. What we do is creating by default our observation of things in our reality decides how we feel and that feeling is a vibration and that vibration is sent out to the law of attraction and the law of attraction gives you in return that exact same thing in manifestation that matches that vibration. So if you dont like what you see you simply need to change your focus. In order to attract what you want you need to focus on that what you want.