This week’s spiral is about the question... you know the one. The timeline, the kids, the “when are you going to…” that always seems to land heavier on women than men. I talk about the pressure to hit invisible milestones, the unsolicited advice, and why society acts like life is a checklist we’re all supposed to follow.If you’ve ever been cornered at a family gathering or questioned by a coworker about your “plan,” this episode is for you. No answers, just spirals, because sometimes the only way through the pressure is to laugh, cry, and call it out.