Colossians 3:13 "Be even tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you" It is often hard to forgive other people. Forgiveness is not about that other person, it is about you letting go of hurt, anger, resentment, or bitterness. If you can't seem to forgive someone, you should keep asking God to help you until you do. And you can be sure of this: if you keep asking for God's help, He will give it.