“We all experience loss differently, but there’s common ground for all of us to find in that.”

Jared Paventi joins Brian this week to talk all about his excellent Substack, Dirt Nap. 

Jared discusses how he came to write a weekly blog/newsletter/Substack/whatever we’re calling it about death and grieving, how watching his oldest daughter grieve the loss of her grandpa inspired him, and how he uses writing to work through what he’s thinking and feeling.

Jared talks about how he’s looking to create a space for conversations about grief through his excellent Griever’s Digest series, how grieving can be about more than just the death of someone, and how the writing of A.J. Daulerio and The Small Bow inspired Dirt Nap, especially the tone. 

We also talk about what happened to his food blog, Blog Al Dente, and what you do when a project starts to feel more like work than fun. 

Rabbit holes include HJ Magazine, how a deadline without a consequence is meaningless, and Brian’s move out of the basement. 

“This is some shit that’s going on in my head and my world. Maybe it’s happening to you too.”

Links

Dirt Nap by Jared Paventi

The Griever’s Digest series at Dirt Nap

The Small Bow by A.J. Daulerio

The Other 51 Episode 13: Anti-Federalists with Jared Paventi

I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jeanette McCurdy (The best thing Jared’s read lately.)

Jean Hanff Korelitz books (The best thing Jared’s read lately.)

The Last Boy by Jane Leavy (The best thing Brian’s read lately.)

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