🎙 Episode 19: Building Stability — Supporting Students Through Transitions and Stress

Guests:

• Nicole Beale, M.Ed., High School Counselor

  
  

• Dr. Gretchen Hoyle, MD, Pediatrician
  Host: Matt Butterman
  Duration: ~50 minutes

Overview:

 When students face instability at home, frequent school moves, or life transitions, the impact often shows up in the classroom. How can schools, families, and healthcare providers work together to meet both academic and emotional needs?

In this episode, host Matt Butterman talks with counselor Nicole Beale and pediatrician Dr. Gretchen Hoyle about how instability affects teens — and how stability, connection, and communication can make all the difference. Together, they unpack the challenges of absenteeism, home life stress, and the overwhelming demands families face, while offering practical, compassionate solutions that schools and parents can implement right away.

Topics Covered:

• Why frequent school moves often correlate with academic struggles

  
  

• How schools identify at-risk students early — and the role of trusted adult connections

  
  

• Meeting basic needs: food security, transportation, and access to resources

  
  

• How pediatricians support students through collaborative care and family education

  
  

• The importance of helping parents and grandparents navigate new school technology systems (like Infinite Campus)

  
  

• Healthy communication between schools, families, and healthcare providers — and how to avoid frustration cycles

  
  

Why remembering that school is about more than academics (socialization, development, and meeting basic needs) matters

Key Quotes:

“The biggest difference we can make is removing barriers and connecting students to trusted adults.” – Nicole Beale

 “Healthy communication means asking questions before anger takes over — and giving each other grace.” – Nicole Beale

 “We have to remember: for some students, school is not just about academics. It’s also where they get fed, clothed, and feel safe.” – Dr. Gretchen Hoyle

Resources & Links:

• Nimble Youth Podcast Episodes & Show Notes
  
  
• Salisbury Pediatrics Collaborative Care Program (local model mentioned in discussion)

  
  

• Learn more about Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs as referenced in the episode

  
  

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