The Family Architect: Parenting by Design, Rather than by Default

Episode 19: Repair Over Perfection — Healing After a Parenting Rupture


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Perfection was never the point of parenting. But when you lose your temper, snap over something small, or watch your child pull away, it can feel like you’ve failed.

This episode of The Family Architect is your reminder that ruptures don’t define you — repairs do.

Inside, Philippa shares:

✨ What a “rupture” really is (and why it doesn’t mean you’re a bad mother)

✨ The three steps of repair in The Regulated Mother Method™ — return, reflect, reconnect

✨ Real-life stories from mothers learning to repair with their children

✨ How repair transforms not just your child’s sense of safety, but your own inner healing

You’ll walk away with practical, compassionate tools to move beyond guilt and shame — and into connection that lasts.

Because your children don’t need perfection. They need presence, repair, and a love strong enough to hold the mess.

This tool is simple, science-based, and available to you anytime, anywhere. It’s not about being calm all the time — it’s about reclaiming your power in the heat of the moment.

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The Family Architect: Parenting by Design, Rather than by DefaultBy Philippa Scott