Coming out is often framed as a single moment—a before and after. But what if identity isn’t a finish line, but a fluid, evolving process? In this episode, Geri and Caitlin explore the experience of coming in to your identity: deepening into yourself, embracing change, and learning to exist in the in-between. We reflect on the pressure to define ourselves, the myth of “queer enough,” and how to find peace in not always having the perfect label.