In this episode of Say More, I’m joined by my longtime friend Kevin DeBacker (@shortacool), a writer and performer whose path has taken him from New York’s improv scene to deeply reflective storytelling through flash fiction and magical realism.

We explore how early life in a strict evangelical church shaped Kevin’s identity, his creativity, and his ability to express and accept himself. He shares openly about adoption, coming out, and how comedy was both a refuge and a way through. Now, his writing continues that healing—playful, honest, and emotionally layered.

Topics include:

• Growing up in a cult-like religious environment

• The connection between humor, trauma, and self-expression

• Processing identity through writing

• Following the fun as a creative and therapeutic path

• The evolution of friendship and authenticity over two decades

This conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t always look one way—and that play, creativity, and community are powerful tools in the process.

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