Have you ever said, "Lord. change this situation! Get me out of here!" I think if you have then that means you are alive, and a normal human being. But, maybe there's a better way to approach tough trials. If we pray for the Lord to strengthen us, then the trial will not seem as powerful. Consider John 17:15, "I pray not that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from the evil."