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Episode 2: The Generous One, The Jealous One And The Truth Between Them
There’s a part of you that loves to pour, to give, to nurture, to fill everyone else’s cup.
And then there’s the other part, the one that glances at someone else’s overflow and quietly wonders, “When’s it my turn?”
This episode of Standing Naked is for both of them.
Because neither is wrong.
Both are sacred.
And both are trying to meet the same need, to feel safe, seen, and enough.
In this conversation, Daveda unpacks the social media quote about the “cup” — the one that says:“I looked in your cup to see if you needed more. You looked in mine to see if I had more than you. We are not the same.”
But instead of glorifying one and shaming the other, she invites you into radical self-honesty, to notice the parts of you that give, grasp, compare, and overextend, and to understand what those reactions are really trying to protect.
You’ll hear:
✨ Why jealousy and generosity are both nervous system strategies, not moral flaws
✨ How scarcity gets disguised as selflessness (and why awareness is the answer)
✨ What it means to integrate the parts of you that compete for belonging
✨ How to turn comparison into curiosity and over-giving into authentic connection
When you stop judging the cup, yours, mine, anyone’s, you start to remember the truth:
We’re all drinking from the same well.
The Weekly Drop:
https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22
Rebel Ambitions: https://daveda-schmidlin.newzenler.com/rebelambitions
In Motion: https://daveda-schmidlin.newzenler.com/in-motion
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NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE
The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional.
Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area.
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By Daveda SchmidlinThere’s a part of you that loves to pour, to give, to nurture, to fill everyone else’s cup.
And then there’s the other part, the one that glances at someone else’s overflow and quietly wonders, “When’s it my turn?”
This episode of Standing Naked is for both of them.
Because neither is wrong.
Both are sacred.
And both are trying to meet the same need, to feel safe, seen, and enough.
In this conversation, Daveda unpacks the social media quote about the “cup” — the one that says:“I looked in your cup to see if you needed more. You looked in mine to see if I had more than you. We are not the same.”
But instead of glorifying one and shaming the other, she invites you into radical self-honesty, to notice the parts of you that give, grasp, compare, and overextend, and to understand what those reactions are really trying to protect.
You’ll hear:
✨ Why jealousy and generosity are both nervous system strategies, not moral flaws
✨ How scarcity gets disguised as selflessness (and why awareness is the answer)
✨ What it means to integrate the parts of you that compete for belonging
✨ How to turn comparison into curiosity and over-giving into authentic connection
When you stop judging the cup, yours, mine, anyone’s, you start to remember the truth:
We’re all drinking from the same well.
The Weekly Drop:
https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22
Rebel Ambitions: https://daveda-schmidlin.newzenler.com/rebelambitions
In Motion: https://daveda-schmidlin.newzenler.com/in-motion
LEGAL DISCLAIMER
By listening to the Standing Naked podcast (“podcast”), you agree to the terms below. If you do not wish to be bound by these terms, please discontinue listening and, if needed, contact us at [email protected].
NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE
The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional.
Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area.
LIMITATION OF LIABILITY
By engaging with this podcast, you assume all responsibility and risk. Under no circumstances shall Daveda Schmidlin, her employees, contractors, or affiliates be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, or consequential damages, or lost profits, arising from your use of or reliance on this podcast or any technical issues (including but not limited to interruptions, errors, defects, or unauthorized access).
COPYRIGHT
The content of the Standing Naked podcast is protected by copyright law. You may share links to publicly available episodes for personal, non-commercial use. You may not reproduce, modify, distribute, or create derivative works from the audio or related materials without prior written permission.
© 2024 Standing Naked with Daveda Schmidlin – All Rights Reserved