A - An ally is AWARE of how society's patterns of dominance work. Allies know when they are in the dominant group in a given situation. An ally doesn't get stuck guilt, shame or blame.  

L - An ally LISTENS to understand how marginalized identities experience life without interrupting or questioning them.  

L - An ally keeps LEARNING about how group  & power dynamics affect the way people are perceived.   

Y - An ally says YES to using their power to help break down oppressive power patterns by engaging in thoughtful strategic action.