In this continuation of our conversation with therapist Christie, we explore the patterns of codependency, projection, and the illusions of romance that shape so many relationships.

Behind the highs of connection often comes the disappointment that calls us to look deeper—at our wounds, our fears, and the ways we project unmet needs onto our partners. We discuss how individuation is not the death of love but the doorway into it, how courage and authenticity open us to agape love, and how resilience grows not by avoiding failure but by learning to embrace it.

We also dive into the balance of masculine and feminine energies, the role of aggression as a healthy force when expressed well, and why resilience is vital in a world that often shields us from failure.

This is a conversation about love, growth, and the strength found in vulnerability.