Olivia just finished listening to the audiobook "How Not to Die Alone" by Logan Ury, and she is dying to discuss some of the most shocking details of the book. How much more does a guy have to make to be considered as attractive as someone taller than him? Should you incentivize people setting you up on dates? Can you make yourself stop searching for someone better by applying the "secretary theory" to dating? And lastly, are people just sliding into the next step of their relationships, especially by living together?

After some 60 Second Sips about clothes shopping and messaging habits, we dive deep into the topic of cohabitating with someone else. If you're both living with a S.O. for the first time, is that an advantage (both going into this with fresh eyes) or a disadvantage (neither really had experience or skills with the stress of newly cohabitating)? And WHO LEFT THE CABINETS OPEN AGAIN?! 

Finally, the episode ends with us pondering... are we too old for scrunchies, crop tops and biker shirts? Oh, we've got opinions on these!

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What is Shots & Thoughts? We're three 30-somethings hosting a podcast about dating, relationships, and life in general.

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Intro music: A Himitsu - Adventures: youtu.be/8BXNwnxaVQE