"...Truly doing what is in another's best interest is a thankless job. Most of our society is trying to hide from the work that they need to do on themselves, so in turn they try to either directly or indirectly influence others to do the same. After all, we can only love someone else as deeply as we've (committed to loving) ourselves. Not indulging people in their self-pity is not cold, or selfish. It's actually the most self-less thing that we can do."-Hollywood