Divorce rates are staggering. Nearly 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number climbs even higher for second marriages. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

In this episode of Fail Up, I break down a simple five-step marriage framework that helps couples move from me vs. you to us vs. the problem. We’ll talk about prevention over reaction, building around shared values and lifestyle vision, breaking resentment before it grows, learning to argue as teammates, and approaching each other with curiosity instead of judgment.

Whether you’re newly married or years in, these tools can help you and your partner build alignment, deepen connection, and create the life you both want without becoming another statistic.