Just be yourself was the cliche dating and interview advice. Today, this axiom has been replaced with something along the lines of showing up as your genuine, authentic, whole self. But what if society isn’t ready for your authentic self? And what if your honesty could make life a lot harder? Alex and Ellie tackle the thorny issue of why so many people in non-traditional lifestyles want to stay discreet, and talk to author Skylar Quinn about what it’s like to live a double life.

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