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EPISODE 23: Should We Say Their Names
Episode 23: Should We Say Their Names?
⚠️ Trigger Warning
This episode contains discussions of sexual violation and predatory behavior within the kink community. Please listen with care. Our intent is not to sensationalize, but to shed light on harm that too often remains hidden. Awareness is necessary—because this behavior must end.
In this sacred but serious offering, your Goddesses hold space for the painful truths of our community:
‣ How do we disclose when we’ve been violated in kink spaces?
‣ How can we create accountability conversations without sensationalism?
‣ Are there ways to protect yourself—and do they matter in a flawed system?
‣ What personal stories need to be witnessed, not buried?
‣ How can the entire BIPOC kink community unite for safety, beyond fragmented pockets of silence?
‣ Is it possible to hold “one band, one sound” when it comes to collective protection?
This is not a typical episode. This is a call to confront, to heal, and to protect each other with radical honesty. 🕯️ If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone.
⚠️ Trigger Warning
This episode contains discussions of sexual violation and predatory behavior within the kink community. Please listen with care. Our intent is not to sensationalize, but to shed light on harm that too often remains hidden. Awareness is necessary—because this behavior must end.
In this sacred but serious offering, your Goddesses hold space for the painful truths of our community:
‣ How do we disclose when we’ve been violated in kink spaces?
‣ How can we create accountability conversations without sensationalism?
‣ Are there ways to protect yourself—and do they matter in a flawed system?
‣ What personal stories need to be witnessed, not buried?
‣ How can the entire BIPOC kink community unite for safety, beyond fragmented pockets of silence?
‣ Is it possible to hold “one band, one sound” when it comes to collective protection?
This is not a typical episode. This is a call to confront, to heal, and to protect each other with radical honesty. 🕯️ If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone.
- 📞 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA): 988
- 📞 Trans Lifeline (peer support for trans community): 877-565-8860
- 🌐 For BIPOC-focused mental health support: The Steve Fund — Text STEVE to 741741
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By Domme Oya OkutiEpisode 23: Should We Say Their Names?
⚠️ Trigger Warning
This episode contains discussions of sexual violation and predatory behavior within the kink community. Please listen with care. Our intent is not to sensationalize, but to shed light on harm that too often remains hidden. Awareness is necessary—because this behavior must end.
In this sacred but serious offering, your Goddesses hold space for the painful truths of our community:
‣ How do we disclose when we’ve been violated in kink spaces?
‣ How can we create accountability conversations without sensationalism?
‣ Are there ways to protect yourself—and do they matter in a flawed system?
‣ What personal stories need to be witnessed, not buried?
‣ How can the entire BIPOC kink community unite for safety, beyond fragmented pockets of silence?
‣ Is it possible to hold “one band, one sound” when it comes to collective protection?
This is not a typical episode. This is a call to confront, to heal, and to protect each other with radical honesty. 🕯️ If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone.
⚠️ Trigger Warning
This episode contains discussions of sexual violation and predatory behavior within the kink community. Please listen with care. Our intent is not to sensationalize, but to shed light on harm that too often remains hidden. Awareness is necessary—because this behavior must end.
In this sacred but serious offering, your Goddesses hold space for the painful truths of our community:
‣ How do we disclose when we’ve been violated in kink spaces?
‣ How can we create accountability conversations without sensationalism?
‣ Are there ways to protect yourself—and do they matter in a flawed system?
‣ What personal stories need to be witnessed, not buried?
‣ How can the entire BIPOC kink community unite for safety, beyond fragmented pockets of silence?
‣ Is it possible to hold “one band, one sound” when it comes to collective protection?
This is not a typical episode. This is a call to confront, to heal, and to protect each other with radical honesty. 🕯️ If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone.
- 📞 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA): 988
- 📞 Trans Lifeline (peer support for trans community): 877-565-8860
- 🌐 For BIPOC-focused mental health support: The Steve Fund — Text STEVE to 741741