Imagine a man catching his wife in bed with a stranger and rather than get upset or blow several gaskets, pulling up a chair and enjoying the show. It’s an attitude that’s been stigmatized so much so that “cuck” is a common slur nowadays. And yet, it’s one of the most popular fantasies among men and women, and there’s a thriving and discreet subculture of cuckolds, cuckqueans, hotwives, and hothusbands. Alex and Ellie look into the psychology of this kink and are joined by author Lucky to talk about what it’s like to live this lifestyle.

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