So much of maturing as a person has to do with getting rid of limiting beliefs and damaging judgments that we don't even realize have been holding us back. As many of us are considering new goals right now, I think it is a good time to address "secret rules". Through past experiences and personality flaws, we may be unaware that these slogans we live by internally are hidden in the heart of our being and have never been consciously evaluated by the standard of truth. Depending on the Lord in His grace to root out our secret rules will allow us to embrace God's way in the everyday.