Whether it’s a school team, academy program, representative squad or elite pathway — that moment when the list goes up and your name isn’t on it can shake a young athlete’s confidence.

In this episode of The FX Factor, Kelly dives deep into the truth behind selections.

Why do some kids get picked while others miss out?

How much does talent actually matter?

Do parents sometimes make things worse without realising it?

And what should athletes do when things don’t go their way?

This is a raw, honest conversation about youth sport — the good, the hard, and the lessons that shape athletes far beyond the field.