This week, Kelly and Christy are spilling everything from what’s in their glasses to what’s on their minds — and yes, reality TV is ruining relationships, but we can’t stop watching. Somewhere between the cocktails and chaos, they unpack that sneaky feeling of becoming invisible as women get older (spoiler: we’re still very much here, just choosing better lighting).

From the identity crisis of motherhood to midlife fashion choices and “I-am-who-I-am” food moments, it’s a laugh-out-loud therapy session for anyone figuring out who they are when no one’s looking. Equal parts sass, honesty, and heart — because if life’s going to make us invisible, we might as well make some noise about it.