What do you think about someone saying "not looking for a pen pal" on a dating app? And, what do you think about people not listing preferences for things that are obvious dealbreakers for them (such as doing drugs or having kids)? These are just a few of the things we chat about on this week's episode. 

Olivia takes some liberties with the time limit for 60 Second Sips this week, but leaves us wondering about whether or not we'd swipe yes on someone using Travel Mode on a dating app. And what if you match with someone only to find out that they're moving across the country? Or plan to travel abroad for the next six months? Would you keep talking to this person or bail out before things get complicated?

And as if all that wasn't complicated enough, we discuss things we talk about things we just don't understand, like mailing packages at the post office, recycling rules, and why you really need to sort your laundry if you're just going to use a Color Catcher anyway. There are some parts of being an adult that we just didn't feel prepared for. Thanks for nothing, home economics!

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What is Shots & Thoughts? We're three 30-somethings hosting a podcast about dating, relationships, and life in general.

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Intro music: A Himitsu - Adventures: youtu.be/8BXNwnxaVQE