Our perception is based on a premise which is connected to what we believe. Check out this episode how Rev. Dr. Marisha talks about how a negative premise triggers a mental monologue within ourselves to believe false narratives and false realities about the trials of life.  Definitely we cannot stop the trials or derailments that happen in our life but what we believe and perceive makes the difference in what God is doing in our lives. We all have a purpose and oftentimes our purpose is strongly correlated to the derailments of life.