We all like to imagine our happy place—some idealized zone of peace, creativity, or joy. But what happens when the thing that actually centers you isn’t the one you wanted it to be? This episode explores the quiet tension between the activities we hope will ground us and the ones that actually do. It’s about noticing where your mind settles, even if that place feels off-brand, uninspiring, or just plain inconvenient. The question is whether you fight it, or finally decide to steer into it.