December is the perfect time for a sexual inventory. How much sex did you have this year... and how was it? I've been on a bit of a kick the past 2 years where I actually wait at least 30 days before having sex.

It's a radical idea, and my guest Obi is not 100% on board with it. So today, I'm going to tell him and all of you why I truly believe the best sex is experienced after you wait a bit (HINT: it has something to do with the oxytocin rush you feel every time you orgasm).

So listen today and let us know YOUR thoughts. Download and rate this podcast, subscribe to us, share it with your friends, and come back again tomorrow for more radical self-help that doesn't suck.