So… For two weeks Devin was convinced she was dealing with straight-up defiance from Chapel — the whining, the tantrums, the drama — and was fully prepared to implement some serious character-building consequences. Turns out? Ear infection. She wasn’t rebellious. She was in pain. And then, we felt that holy little nudge like, “How often do you do this to other people in everyday life?”

This week’s episode is us unpacking that conviction in real time — the ways we label instead of lean in, correct instead of get curious, assume instead of ask. It’s honest, a little humbling, and it might hit close to home. If you’ve ever mistaken hurt for attitude, this one’s for you.