Are you controlling? Do you feel like you are being controlled? What does controlling behavior communicate? What influences controlling behavior? 

Feeling a lack of control combined with viewing "luck" as chance leads to shutting down and possibly depression.

Feeling a lack of control combined with viewing "luck" as something you create leads to overcompensating in controlling behavior. Feeling unsafe or a lack of trust can lead to controlling behavior, as well. 

How can you understand yourself better or increase empathy for others?

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