Let’s be honest, everyone has insecurities in the bedroom. In this episode, we’re talking about the real stuff that couples often avoid but absolutely need to hear. From body image worries to fears about performance or judgment, we’ve all been there.

We break insecurities into three big areas:

1. Physical Feature Insecurities - how body image and self-comparison mess with confidence.

2. Kink and Desire Insecurities - the fear of being judged for what turns you on (or doesn’t).

3. Experience and Performance Insecurities - the pressure to “do it right” and how that can kill connection.

We also get personal about how these showed up in our own marriage and the tools we use to work through them. Expect a mix of honesty, humor, and practical advice that will help you see your relationship through a more compassionate lens.

If you’ve ever felt nervous, awkward, or unsure during intimacy, this episode will remind you that you’re not broken. You’re human, and growth happens when you face it together.