In this episode of The Caitlin’s Couch Podcast, we are back! Caitlin dives into the challenges couples face in maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships and marriages. She discusses why sexual desire changes over time, why connection is crucial between sexual experiences, and how intentional effort can help rekindle passion. Caitlin shares five practical, research-backed strategies to keep emotional and physical connection strong, helping partners feel more available for intimacy. If you or your partner struggles with feeling "in the mood," this episode provides actionable insights to bridge that gap and create a cycle of connection rather than distance.

Key Takeaways:

* The Reality of Long-Term Relationships & Intimacy – Sex in a committed relationship evolves from the early days of passion and novelty to something that requires intention and effort.

* Maintaining Connection Between Sexual Experiences – Connection isn’t just about sex itself; what happens in between is just as important.

* Bridging the Gap in Different Connection Styles – Some people need emotional closeness before being available for sex, while others need sex to feel emotionally close. Understanding and balancing these differences can lead to a stronger relationship.

Resources Mentioned:

* Read Caitlin’s latest Psychology Today article on maintaining connection: Simple Non-Sexual Daily Practices for Maintaining Intimacy

* Listen to the latest blog post from Modern Sex, Caitlin’s blog on Psychology Today:

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