Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions

Episode 31: "Kinky Sex: Saves or Destroys Relationships?"


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Is kink the spark your relationship needs—or the match that burns it alldown?


In this raw, real, and often controversial episode of Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, we’re untying the ropes around a hot-button topic: Kinky sex. From BDSM and swinging to polyamory, fetishism, and sex toys—we’re exploring the truth about whether embracing non-traditional sex strengthens intimacy or quietly erodes connection.


Couples newly dating? You’re not immune. Married for 10 years? Still relevant. LGBTQ+? Absolutely included. No matter your background, orientation, or relationship status—this episode invites you into a judgment-free zone where we ask: Are we exploring desire… or escaping something deeper?


With eye-opening research, shocking statistics, real-life couple stories, Marriage & Family Therapy insights, and even a poetic twist, this episode unpacks the emotional wine behind the distractions of kink, curiosity, and commitment.


🎯 What to Expect:

  • Real conversations, no sugar-coating
  • Controversial questions most couples avoid
  • Tools to open up, reconnect, and get honest about your desires
  • Stories of couples who saved their relationship through kink—and those who broke under the weight of it

🛑Let’s talk about the distractions that make you feel alone—even in the same bed.


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Hearts Wine from Hearts DistractionsBy Allishaz Distractions