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Episode 31: Mutual Choosing - Love Notes


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Love Notes LIVE • Episode 31

Mutual Choosing

Tonight on Love Notes LIVE, we got honest about what happens when you realize you’ve been the only one holding something together.

This episode explored the shift from chasing to requiring, from hoping to seeing clearly, and from one-sided effort to mutual choosing.

We talked about the difference between attention and intention, and how real connection feels when it is returned instead of negotiated.

Tonight’s dedications featured:

  • Baby, Come Back by Player
  • Is This Love by Whitesnake
  • Always and Forever by Heatwave
  • Up Where We Belong by Joe Cocker and Jennifer Warnes

Tonight’s romance recommendations:

The Bridges of Madison County by Robert James Waller

Say Anything

In our Soulful Connections segment, we explored the truth that real connection does not leave you questioning your place, and that mutual choosing is felt through consistency, clarity, and shared presence.

Calling All Romance Authors

I’m opening up a new segment on Love Notes LIVE and I’m looking for romance authors who would love to be featured and interviewed live on TikTok.

If you write stories that explore connection, longing, chemistry, emotional tension, or unforgettable love, I want to hear from you.

These conversations will highlight your work, your characters, your creative process, and the deeper emotional threads that make your stories resonate.

This is a space where romance meets real life.

If you’re interested in being featured, send an email with your name, book details, and a short introduction to:

[email protected]

Let’s bring your stories to life in a whole new way.

Want more late-night honesty, romance, and real connection?

Tune into Love Notes Unscripted and explore connection tools at The Passion Zone Etsy.

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