Get clear on the fact that God allows things in our lives that are not about us

Sometimes we make decisions in our free will that have consequences and those decisions and those consequences are something we can CHOOSE to learn and grow from and ask God the very powerful question, what can YOU do with this THROUGH me? 

This is our purpose. This is our life. This is what we are here for. To have a life that is lived with purpose, for purpose and on purpose 

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